Emily The Friendly Realtor

Have a Fun and Friendly Summer

Everyone loves SUMMER! I especially love the occasional summer wedding, an exciting pool party, a family BBQ, and being invited OUT more with friends!
Because the summer is so full of party and wedding invitations and being around people and having a good time with other human beings, I thought I would post some friendly reminders, that just because we are a little bit more fancy-free (HELLO, ponytails, tank tops, and jean shorts!) Doesn’t mean we should throw out good ole fashion manners!

So, here are some tip’s to remember for your summer weddings and get-togethers.

RSVP

If you are invited to a wedding and you are asked to RSVP, make sure to RSVP. Usually, the Bride spends a large amount of money on providing you with a stamped envelope to make replying easier. Tech-friendly couples may have a website for you to log in to and RSVP there.

It is very rude to not RSVP and then show up to the dinner or reception, when the family has not planned for you to attend and may not have provided enough food or beverages for you. Don’t put them in an awkward position because you just assumed they would know you were coming.

When asked to RSVP to ANY EVENT, do so by the date requested. Oh. And a text message saying “C U There” is probably not the best idea.

Don’t Look Like a Mooch

Never show up empty handed when you are invited to a dinner or luncheon, BBQ or patio party! Unless the host specifically told you NOT to bring anything, you should always have something in hand when showing up. Don’t worry, it doesn’t have to be expensive or fancy.  EASY BRING ALONG’S FOR UNDER $5.00: Watermelon, Deviled Eggs, a bottle of soda, a 24 pack of water bottles, sliced cucumber, strawberries and cool whip, and so much more!

The host will think you are fabulous and you’ll be sure to be invited again!

Bring a Birthday Gift to a Birthday Party

Now that I’m older than 16, I have been to SEVERAL birthday parties where dozens of people show up, eat the food, drink the drinks, with out giving the birthday star so much as a card. This is so rude.

Here is what my mother always told me: “If you are too poor or too busy to give your friend a gift, then stop by the side of the road and pick some flowers. But never show up empty handed, because it will appear that you are empty hearted.”

Greet and Thank the Host

When you are at a party or a wedding, make sure to greet the host and when you leave, thank them for their hospitality. If you are feeling any more generous, offer to help with clean up.

When Leaving Early…

If possible, Let the host/bride/groom know in advance if you can only come for a brief moment. You can say something like “Jane, I am so disappointed that I won’t be able to stay long, I have a prior engagement that I just can’t skip out on.”  When the host see’s you  dart in and dart out, they won’t have to wonder “Why?…” Or feel bad that maybe you didn’t like the dance songs they picked for the reception (LOL)

Have a fun and fab summer!

-Emily

NEXT WEEK……
I’ve been in TONS of weddings! I’ll share some advice for brides, grooms, ‘maids and ‘men. Stay Tuned!
To contact Emily Galbraith, visit her Kansas City Real Estate Website

Phone: 816.726.6706. Send an email to: Emily@InfinityRealtySells.com